When a loved one passes, there are moments when their memory unexpectedly washes over us—sometimes gently, like a warm breeze, and other times like a crashing wave. It might be the sight of their favorite flower, the melody of an old song, or the aroma of fresh-baked bread that takes you back to the times you shared. In those moments, your heart whispers, They would have loved this. And then comes the ache. The longing to share that moment with them.
But these memories need not be triggers for sorrow. They are treasures. Gifts from God, lovingly placed along the path of our life. Pray that they never fade, for they remind us that the love we shared is eternal. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:8 that “Love never fails” (NIV). The love they gave us continues to shape our hearts, weaving itself into who we are, echoing long after they are gone.
When grief feels overwhelming, it’s tempting to retreat—to hide away from the reminders. But consider this: every memory is an opportunity to love them again, to feel their presence, and to celebrate the impact they had on your life. Their love is not lost; it is alive within you, calling you to carry it forward.
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